I NEVER CHEATED ON MY LATE HUSBAND — SABBY PHIRI.
A Widow SABBY PHIRI who has been accused of having multiple relationships which led to the alleged death of her husband Nathan Mithi a musician speaks out.
Below is a statement authentic from her write up.
Beyond the Accusations: The Unseen Reality of My Story
Amidst the public portrayal of being a “bad wife,” the reality I lived through was far more harrowing. Enduring years of spousal abuse, I found myself unjustly blamed for circumstances beyond my control, particularly my late husband’s misguided accusation of being the cause of his demise.
Behind closed doors, I bore the weight of relentless wife battering, a painful truth that remained hidden for far too long. However, it’s crucial to unveil the concealed layers of our story—the ones obscured by accusations and social media narratives.
It pains me to be implicated in my late husband’s tragic decision, when in truth, his struggles extended far beyond our personal conflicts. One of the overwhelming burdens he faced was an insurmountable amount of debt, contributing significantly to his sleepless nights and inner turmoil.
Moreover, I was ensnared in a web of blackmail, coerced into silence about the abuse I endured. Threats of tarnishing my reputation and the ultimate ultimatum—”I will end my life and besmirch your name”—haunted me into keeping my suffering veiled.
When I reached a breaking point and sought liberation from this cycle of torment, he unleashed the bombshell he had concealed for so long. I’m not seeking justification, merely shedding light on the complexities that plagued our relationship.
The people closest to me, witnesses to the truth I’ve endured, stand as testaments to the trials I faced behind the façade of social media perceptions. Their support and validation serve as a reminder that the truth, though obscured, is evident to those who truly know the reality I lived through.
In sharing this glimpse into the untold narrative, I aim not to absolve myself but to offer context to a situation that’s been unfairly simplified. I ask for empathy, understanding, and acknowledgement that the truth often transcends the surface-level perceptions painted by external circumstances.
However, it will be recalled that Zambian musician, Nathan Mithi, has reportedly committed suicide after accusing his wife, Sabby Phiri, of infidelity.
Mithi, who was identified as a member of Ghetto Link, a prominent music group in the country was laid to rest on Thursday, December 14, 2023.
In a lengthy suicide note published on his Facebook, Mithi detailed the harrowing experiences of his marriage to Phiri, accusing her of infidelity, deception, and a quest for a lavish lifestyle.
“If you are seeing this then I am probably DEAD! Ati ‘I need space’ kansi ah nyegesa kunja (however, she is sleeping around). Don’t Skip but learn from me. Sabby, you are the reason for my death,” he wrote.
He also narrated how he allegedly caught the wife having sex with other men on their matrimonial bed, including a young boy related to him and a landlord whom he insulted in the post.
“Why have I killed myself? I did it because I truly loved her from the bottom of my heart. My heart could not take the nonsense that she is into.”